4 Post-Wedding Thank You Gifts for Mom and Dad

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Whether they contribute financially or not, parents have a lot to do with how a wedding pans out. From helping with planning to paying for the bar, to listening to you freak out while you shove half a pizza in your face -- your parents have stayed strong and helpful through the whole process. While a nice thank you note might suffice for Aunt Marge, your parents deserve a little more.

1. Frame Their Invitation
Nothing says "I love you" like custom work. Having your invitation or stationery suite framed for your parents is a great way to say thanks for everything that they've done. Their names are probably on it -- yours certainly is. It's a great reminder of both the big day and everything leading up to it.

Look into local framers, like Artful Framer Studios, to see what options are available. Custom frames come in a multitude of colors, textures, materials and designs. Pick one that suits both your invitation and their living room. Every time they look at it, they'll see their little girl/boy standing at the alter on the happiest day of her/his life.

2. Spa Day
It's no shocker that wedding planning is stressful. There's the decision-making, the designing, the seat arranging, the budget reigning, etc. And for every bit of strain you feel, your parents are feeling it, too. They want your wedding to be as perfect as you do. Thank them for taking this journey with you by having a relaxing spa day together. Get massages, have your nails done, maybe get a facial to keep that newlywed glow going. Places like Spa in Your Space even come to you! Look at that -- you even save your parents the stress of driving.

3. Paint the Town Red
Maybe your version of relaxing is more about getting out and having some fun. Be a tourist in your own city for a day and visit all your favorite spots. Head to the Art Institute of Chicago, and swing by the Bean. Maybe have some deep dish pizza and grab some delicious Garrett's Popcorn for the way home. There's no place like sweet home Chicago. Your parents will be thrilled to spend a day with you that doesn't involve tying ribbons around favors.

4. Dance the Night Away
Everyone loves dancing. Even if they say they don't, they probably do -- they're just shy. After all the romance of a wedding, surprise your parents with the gift of dance lessons. Arthur Murray Dance Centers have nine (seriously, nine) locations all over the city and suburbs, and they teach different styles of dance everyday. Your parents can rumba, swing, or fun trot their way to post-wedding fun. They'll enjoy picking up some new steps and spending time together. Plus, they'll be the hippest old people at the next wedding in the family.


Your parents love you and do everything they can to make sure that your day is perfect. Don't forget to say thanks in a truly meaningful way!


What do you plan to give your parents as a thank you gift after your wedding?